l...lesbian. sexual orientation
g...gay. sexual orientation
b...bisexual. sexual orientation
t...transgender. sexual orientation
t...transsexual. gender identity
which of the previous least fits with the rest?
if you said transsexual then you get a gold star. except that the transvestites, crossdressers, shemales, autogynephiliacs and drag queens co-opt every label we try to assign to ourselves. they are all running away from themselves and we've got pourous borders. we don't get off on girl's clothes. we don't dress in female attire to express our "feminine side". we don't want to see a penis dangling between our legs under our breasts. we don't want to become women. we are not stage acts. we are women. we were born women, we didn't transform ourselves into them.
we don't do surgery to make us into women, we do it to correct a biological defect. we are not them and they are not us. we do not fit under the tg umbrella and we don't have any natural affiliation with the lgb crowd. if we didn't know that before we better know it now. the recent enda fiasco proved our position beyond any shadow of a doubt. the lgb's threw the whole of the t under the bus, even those who are their natural brothers and sisters. they gladly accept our capital and trot one of us out every time they want to make a point about how normal we all are and then toss us aside like a dead cat when it becomes expedient to do so. without an ounce of conscience. it's time for us to stop tagging along with those who don't want us for ourselves, only our capital, and make our stand based on our own position and need. they don't respect me any more then the non lgbt's. they see me as they do, a heterosexual male who wears dresses. the non-lgbt's don't have a monopoly on ignorance and bigotry, there's plenty to go around. withdraw! stop associating ourselves with them and their baggage, we've enough of our own.
